Atithidevo Bhava – a mantra that defines the attitude of India towards its guests. Upanishad, the late Vedic Sanskrit texts that form the foundation of Hinduism, teaches us “matrudevo bhava, pitrudevo bhava, acharyadevo bhava, atithidevo bhava” which literally means, “be one for whom the Mother is God, be one for whom the Father is God, be one for whom the Teacher is God, be one for whom the guest is God”. That is why Indians are so amiable and hospitable people. Having said that, there are also many rules and customs to which Indians have adhered for millenniums. And, any disobedience of these customs, even being a guest, are often taken as rudeness or offence at times. So, to make your India trip a safe and memorable one, here is a list of things that you should not do while visiting India.
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Entering inside a temple or home wearing shoes
Entering inside a temple with your shoes on is not allowed in India. Usually, there are clear instructions at the gate for doing so. If you do not see any instruction, then also be assured that it is customary to remove your shoes while entering. If you are invited to any local’s residence, then you should take your shoes off near the main door. You will also come to see a few age-old shops, more specifically jewellery shops, where you must keep your shoes outside before entering through the door.
Engaging in political or religious conversations
India is not only geographically diverse; it is religiously and politically diverse as well. So, you never know what political or religious belief a local had. The wiser thing to do is to refrain from any comment that can hurt that sentiment. It is not hard to do, as you will find enough common topics like literature, history, culture, heritage and food to keep the discussion going. In fact, starting a political or religious conversation might interrupt that flow, and the zone of comfort closes down pretty soon.
Photographing people without permission
This is a universal truth. You should not photograph a person without verbal consent, at least. India is a vibrant and energetic country. You will find lots of things going around different corners of the country at a time with so many fairs and festivals. And then the diverse people and their rituals and traditions always draw the attention of photographers. But there are a few thing you should keep in mind, photographing cremation grounds, bathing places, and religious places are not welcome especially when it is clearly instructed on the walls. If you still need to do it for your project, find a fixer before you proceed ahead.
At times, you can not resist taking a photo without permission. In that case, approach the person after getting the shot. You may be surprised to see that you will be requested for taking more photos. But ignoring everyone and just clicking even without a clear indication of not doing so may create problems.
Pointing a finger or giving anything with the left hand
Pointing the finger at a person is considered rude in India. Also, touching a thing with your feet, particularly a book, an academic or musical instrument, or any vehicle’s front part, makes people offended. If you do that, you will see your local companion making an apology for it. Also, giving or taking any object or eating with your left hand is taken as disrespectful. Indians usually use their non-dominant hand for cleaning after going to the toilet or removing shoes. If you are a left-handed person, then, of course, it is not mandatory, but you should communicate that.
Visiting popular destinations only
India is not only about Agra, Rajasthan, Kerala, Hampi, Khajuraho and Varanasi. India is the seventh-largest country and the second-most populous country in the world. It has 28 states and 8 united territories. And there are many natural and human-made wonders in India that worth a visit. If you explore only the most touristy places, you have the impression based on experiences that at times do not reflect the true soul of India.
Relying too much on cards for payment
India is shifting its main monetary transaction process towards digital payment. Still, many people – hotel, shop and restaurant owners largely dependant on the cash economy, particularly in small cities and rural areas. If you plan to explore the country off the beaten path, you must have a sufficient amount of cash in your wallet. ATMs are not installed everywhere. Using a digital payment app like PayTM and PhonePe are good options nowadays, especially after the demonetisation. But the unavailability of good internet coverage at high altitude places makes that difficult too.
Showing public affection
It is best to keep your affectionate gestures private in India. You can be in trouble for an obscene act, and kissing in public can be regarded as an obscene act in Indian law. Kissing in public is okay until it does not cross the limits of decency or morality laid by the law and does not become a nuisance to incite public annoyance. But, if the law is not sitting by your side to watch you, some moral police are in some parts of India who can make things uncomfortable for you. So, it would be wise to avoid public display of affection in India.
Wearing skimpy clothes
Indians like to be dressed traditionally with covered shoulders and knees. If you want to dress in an unconventional way that could raise the impression as revealing in a few Indian minds, be sure to do it in urban areas, especially metro cities. In small cities and rural areas, dressing traditionally would help you to interact and mix with locals. Of course, sea beaches in Goa is an exception where you can go with your coolest outfit.
Smoking in public places and doing drugs
Smoking and drinking alcohol in public places is not allowed in India. You can do that at your own place or in licensed shops, bars, restaurants and hotels. Also, consumption, possession and distribution of any drug will lead to conviction, irrespective of your location in India.
Showing your flashy things
Carrying expensive jewellery or gadgets is not a good idea if you plan a backpacking trip in India. Pickpocketing is an existing problem in India. So, while you travel by public transport, the safety of these expensive things can be a big concern. It is better to avoid walking in narrow by-lanes and empty streets in odd hours.
Book your trip: Resources
- Flight
Use Skyscanner or Google Flights to book your flight.
- Accommodation
Tripadvisor and Agoda are perfect for booking your hotel. If you want to stay in a hostel, then Hostelworld would greatly help you find one at your convenience.
- Travel Insurance
World Nomads is perfect for travel insurance. You can get comprehensive protection from them. Let them take care of unexpected situations while you concentrate on your trip.
- Package Tour and Activities
You can book a package tour from G-Adventures and Viator. They are a reputed company arranging small group tours and customising them per your requirements. You can also use Get Your Guide to book your private transport, city tours, heritage walks, food walks and other experiences like a cooking lesson or a Yoga session.
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